The past few years there has been a rumor floating around my school that I am the "mean teacher". I have no idea where this even started! Everyone I work with is baffled when they hear this! The only things that I can think of are that I'm loud and I hold students responsible and actually expect them to do their work. It went so far in that when I passed first graders in the hallway, I would either hear them whisper to their friends, "that's the small teacher," or, "that's the mean teacher." Seriously? Two years ago it was so bad, that I started off the year with this stigma from parents that transferred over to their students and I had the MOST HORRIBLE year I'd ever had in teaching. I came home a couple of times and started looking for new career opportunities.
This year, things have been so much better! (Last year was pretty good too, but this year has been great!) It all started with the confidence boost of parents and students telling me that they were hoping to be in my class. When all was said and done, on the first day of school, one of my co-workers overheard a couple of students in the hall, "I don't get it, they all said she was mean, but she's not mean, she's awesome." I don't get it either, friends. I have students telling me and emailing me that they like me and are glad that they're in my class. The biggest thing so far is that I ran into a parent today and she just went off on how much her son is enjoying my class and how happy they are that I'm her son's teacher this year.
How did I go from being this crazy teacher that no one wanted to everyone's favorite person? I don't think I changed at all. So friends, please do me a few favors:
1. Don't spread rumors about teachers especially if you don't know what you're talking about
2. If you think there is a problem in your student's class, talk to the teacher to find out what's going on and fill him/her in on what you know
3. If you like a teacher, let people know, including the teacher
I think most people just assume that others know that they are liked, but you never know when the positive never reaches that person or not.
11 years ago
